Building Relationships (updated 04.03.2021)
Supporting relationships through reconciliation, forgiveness, apology and meeting relational needs
The learning process
Relational choices
Behaviour that puts your relationship at risk
Emotional needs
Do you know what your emotional needs are?
Love Language
The Emotional Cup
Common behaviour patterns when relational needs are not met
Good listening
Bad listening
Teaching and courses
Relationship course to build professional teams
Courses for schools
Four session course for students 15yr plus
Results of parenting programme
Using the material on this web site
Questionaire - how do you want to be loved?
We all want to be loved in a specific way. This questionaire will help you identify how you want to be loved. It will be very useful for couples and parents
Questionaire - What are your emotional needs?
We all have emotional needs. What are they? This questionaire will help you identify your emotional needs.
Love Language Questionaire for teenagers
This questionaire will help the teenager to identify how he/she wants to be loved
Love Language mystery game
This game will help pre-teenagers to identify how they want to be loved
Communication quiz - exploring gender differences
#good communication is vital for a good relationships. How good is yours?
Stepfamilies - some issues and myths to consider

Bad listening

If you listen badly you are basically sending a message to the person talking to you that their agenda is not as important as your agenda. You are putting them down - (See section on Web site "Putting your relationship at risk")

EXERCISE Think of a time when you were not listened too - how did you feel? - write it down.
Isn't it hard to continue a conservation with someone who is not listening to you ! You feel small, unimportant , even angry. Certainly you loose interest in continuing to spend time with the other person.

Look at the pictures below to see ways of listening badly and stop doing them !

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